Clubs, party, money, alcohol and sex. How did we evolve to become this way?
Back in the days,
men wore suits, top hat and brogues, and woman wore long sensible dresses, gloves and handkerchief. Going out for a good time means going to a jazz club, and dance jive or salsa to beautiful, romantic music played by live bands. There, man and woman can have just a slightest sensation by a kiss on the hand. When a man wants to woo a girl, they would walk up to her with confidence, buy her a drink and kindly ask for her hand, she would smile shyly and leave her handkerchief on the table for him. Then it would be his job to chase her down and win her heart.
And now?
Dressing up in really short, revealing dresses, wearing board shorts and a t-shirt. Heading out to a night club that plays music with tittles like "River side mother fucker", which most likely is going to be made up with digitally compressed sounds. Men and woman then would dance around like animals on the craze, touching each other in very private parts, who you had never spoken to in your whole life!
What happened to that respect between both sex? When did this society become so physical and selfish?
People became greedy and self centered, with only the want to satisfy their own physical cravings. And what has that achieved over the years?
People getting worse and worse at sex because they don't treasure it. Why do you think people call it 'making love'? It creates something special between both genders and brings them closer to each other. We're not made to have a lot of sexual partners, that is why there are sexual transmitted diseases there to stop us.
Making love is like a piece of sticky tape someone told me once; the first thing you touch you stick to it like glue, then when you rip it off you lose some of your stickiness to it. After that you stick yourself to another, it wouldn't be as strong as the first but you still stay, then when you take it off you lose more of yourself to that one. Then eventually you just become a loose piece of plastic that can't stay with anything.
When you give yourself to that person, it means you reveal the most private secrets to them, and when you leave, a part of you stays with that person. (of course all this varies with different people) After repeating this process several times, you begin to find it hard to give your heart to anyone, hard to feel anything special when you make love or even just simply trust yourself with the next partner.
Making love is something really beautiful and special that a man and woman can share; this wonderful desire brings new life into this world, this amazing gift from God that brings men and woman closer and create that bond...
this is what you call miracle.
People would debate with me saying sex has nothing to do with love, its just a physical act that a guy and a girl do between themselves, like taking a shower or shaking hands.
Ok, if that is true, why do people feel used after one night stands? Why do people feel down about themselves if that person don't return their calls or text? Because there is something there connecting the two, and it is something so private to every person. Its just like you wouldn't give some random person that you meet on the street your house address.
What I'm trying to say here is people these days should stop trashing themselves like some sort of worthless rubbish, and start understanding yourselves a bit better,
treat yourself like you wish others would treat your closest family or friends.
